I personally hate fights. You might think the fights nurture growth but I think it's probably the temporary "feel-good" from the reconciliation.

Woman tend to be very irritable during pregnancy because of the weird mix of hormones that are in our body during the process. So think of it as a prlogned PMS and forgive her when she's acting moody.

Also, I think if you guys have fights during the pregnancy, it's not very good for the baby. This is because during a fight, the body secretes a lot of adrenalin. High level of adrenalin will likely change the behavior of the child for the worse after he/she is born.

hmm,

thanks.

Well, ain't arguing...

But,

some things aren't that easy to listen too...

I suppose I've known that at least on my side of things - I've been aloof or unreachable in these states - becuase it seems I close up, just because of my concerns for the babies wellfare.

Understandable?

For ex.

Once moody (im not sure that describes it :) - more like dragon tantrums...

well, then once I close up (not dealing with the babies wellfare emotionaly) - that causes more of a tantrum on her side.

Hope that helps.

Anyhow, not as a means of escape from 'reality' - Id like to share something, some may find inspirational.

If 'reality' was taken to be a 'miraculous reality' rathen then 'reality' or 'harsh reality' etc...would that change things for you?

As to where Im coming from -

It is miraculous - or at leas I believe it to be.

Not diminishing my responseablity

sorry for the spelling mistakes.

G'day to all.

lv

libr8d (pron. liberateD)