Does she know how hurting she can be? Does she care?

asked by Chikyuu on 24 November 2007 2:33


My Mom just keeps chopping me (and my Dad) it almost seems constantly. if it isn't inconvenient for her to pick me up or drop me off somewhere so I can have a social life or just to get out of the house (since I'm homeschooled and spend almost all my time at home) and she always complains about that, it's how I don't do enough for her, how I don't confide in her, and even the smallest thing can just set her off to the point of making me feel like running away. "I can't believe you did that, you should feel ashamed, you aren't on my side anymore, I guess you can't make people love you." Is all she says, and there's no way to have a "sorry" get you out of it, she has to vent on you for hours at a time... for almost everything. Both me and Dad are just afraid of her since she's so stubborn and we don't know what she's going to make into a huge argument in the house next. I even have to watch what I say around my own mother about things that might've happened which mean nothing, but definitely SOMETHING to her. Nothing is her fault, and whenever you mention how it feels, she automatically feels worse so it gives her the right to stay angry and everything. I can't take this, I'm only turning 14 in January and I can't take 4-5 more years of this before I can finally LEAVE. I'm just going to go ballistic.

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being a daughter is just as ahrd as being a mother. we are all human and we all let the little stuff get in the way of our love. being a family is the hardest thing i have ever done but i grew up without one and now that i have it i would trade all the bullshit for anything. be patient with ur mom she just wants u to be better than her. i am a mother now and all i want for my kids is for them to have a better life than me and somtimes i forget that i need to just let them live and learn, i just wish more than anything that i can take all the things i have learned in ilfe and just plant it in there hearts but life is not that easy i have to teach them about life and the dangers of there actions and its hard to guage if im doing it the right way. it sound like u are the most important thing in her life and to have that is the greatest treasure in the world. be patient and understanding even when u think u cant do it anymore it will pay off i promise. one day u will understand why and how but life only moves so fast. lover her and let the rest fall away


answered by flower-mommy@hotmail.com on 28 November 2007 15:57

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