How can i deal with this sociopath

asked by HoolKin on 27 January 2008 18:10


I currently am a student in college and i've been living with 2 housemates. One fits every single symptom of a sociopath. He constantly puts fear and hate and so much anger into me. I dread coming back to school because me makes me so angry and im literally afraid of him. He has repeatedly told me i should kill myself and how i should die. He threatens my time here at school saying he'll make my time here miserable. He's called me many harsh words and i literally and honestly have not done a thing to this kid. He has threatened my friend's lives because the turned down the volume to his music blasting at 3:00am he was throwing a party and people were trying to sleep. He lies just about everything he can. He has killed animals in the past and finds it funny. He refuses to help do anything around the apt. He never asks if he can throw parties..he just does it. He never cleans up after himself. When i first met him he seemed like a real sweet guy and we were great friends..I then realized it was just his charm and sociopaths have this. No one really seems this in him but myself and my other housemate. It makes me go nuts every time i think about him. I cannot take his constant anger and rudeness towards me or my friends. I'm afraid to being friends over. He has no emotion for anything or for anyone. He feels like he has done nothing wrong when i approach him about how he treats people. He just says how much of a bitch i am instead. I can go on and on about how much he has really made my time at my apt. miserable. Please....if anyone can help me as to how i can deal with such a person because he seriously must be a sociopath.

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get away from this person and even get the police to warn him off. You said that he has killed animals in the past and finds it funny - that is one of the main characteristics that show up with sociopaths and much worse. Sorry just read the date on this but if you haven't already GET OUT and get the police to give a warning to him. For some reason they tend to respond to Authority figures but this is more to do with how they like to appear to outside world.



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Get an emergency transfer to another dorm as soon as possible and request help. Sociopaths are very dangerous and would not think twice about hurting you.


answered by Thinking on 1 September 2008 4:27

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get away, as fast and far as you can, it is worth whatever you have to give up to do so. I live with a husband who has NPD; Narcissistic Personality Disorder, and it has nearly killed me. I am trying to start my life over and it is not safe for me to just leave with no contact. They are scarry and dangerous people, you cannot change them!


answered by shatteredhts on 4 July 2008 23:27

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