how do I make my boyfriend realize I need him to talk to me and not shut me out of everything?

asked by hope1968 on 19 April 2008 15:57


Hi, my boyfriend doesn't like to show how much he cares for me. He shuts me out all the time. We have two daughters together that I love very much. I love him too. I want him to realize I love him for him. We're not close like we were when we first meet 9 years ago. I have a lot of trust issues that bother me alot. Also he acts too childish most of the time. Which bothers me alot.

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My girlfriend and I were getting into the phase of being complacent with each other and just got into the rythum of life. Then she starting planning dates once a week and we switched off weeks doing whatever the other wanted to do. After a while we became friends again. Only at that point will the issues in a relationship start to work themselves out. So be his friend too, not just his wife, and he will open up.


answered by uopcoffee on 30 April 2008 14:26

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i have a husband and i sit down with him and we talk about our feelings. maybe u can sit him down and talk to each other


answered by buffy on 24 April 2008 15:29

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Find someone to talk to, other than your boyfriend, about your trust issues to work them out.


answered by Ophelia on 22 April 2008 11:51

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