No you are not I have a very similer problem. I am still quite confused about it though.

I have a similar issue, though i wouldn't call it a problem. Homosexuality is such a delicate issue when people are growing up, they see heterosexual relationships as normal and because people conservative by nature, they don't want to change. When i went from a male relationship to a female relationship in a month, everybody was shocked, however I didn't see it as anything different than a normal relationship.

It's perfectly normal for humans to 'check out' others, no matter what the gender.

And really, it's about the personality in a relationship. Make sure you like the person's nature before you rush into a relationship.

Do not worry about your feelings. I had them before. There's nothing bad about looking at both sexes from time to time, as I do that, too (even if it is hard to admit). These feelings you are having are just in human nature. Every living thing has a need to reproduce, and you are going through that state right now (and I am too).

Your problem lies not in having the problem, but in having fear of the problem. Since this is natural, there is nothing to worry about; however, I must caution you that if you rush into a relationship because of these feelings you will be in deep trouble. I made that mistake once, and I don't want anybody else to have to go through what I felt.

So exactly what are you feeling? You are feeling some sort of skin-deep love. When you feel true love, you will know. Trust me.

Hmmm, as Stelzare said don't rush into any type of relationship, I always advise people to wait till college since relationships in high school never last. I remember when I was in high school, it was basically the norm for a guy to have a new girlfriend (or 2) every week or so. Also, down the road, if you do decide to get into a serious relationship with another guy, you'll definitely want to make sure they you let them know that you have the Gender Identity disorder condition. The reason I say that is, most guys, including myself, would definitely want to know something like that before getting serious with someone.

i'm going through the same thing you are going through. you shouldn't feel sacred to your'e feelings.

I feel just like you. Although, I have been havind same sexual desires since 2000. But, because of my religion (at that time), I got married to my best friend. Now, almost a year and a half later, I am totally miserable. I haven't had sex with my husband, because I just don't find him attractive. When I pleasure myself, I always think about women. In fact, I fantizise about them all the time. I have gotten help, but my psychiatrist doesn't like to dwell on that kind of issue, so I feel that I am going it alone. In fact, I am sure I will get a divorce and seek same sex relationships.

Just do me a favor, ALWAYS BE TRUE TO YOURSELF!!!!

You can look at women and not be sexually aroused by them. And even so.. that does not make you lesbian. The naken women's body is much sexier than a mans. Even if you go to a strip club, the women dancers are way better than the men.