should i tell before someting happens?

asked by Dying girl on 13 February 2008 15:30


my neighbor used to be like an uncle to me and now he watches me. Saying i owe him things and such. He offers to buy me booze and drugs so he can screw me. His exact words were "i love ur breasts and want to suck on them."i was so scared yet I don't know if he'll ever hurt me. when i walk by he says things and grabs my ass. i can't tell anyone bcuz who would beleive a shy girl like me? what if they blame me? what if he ha already touched me?

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Sweetheart I know that it may seem like the hardest thing in the world to tell someone but this man could not only hurt you but hurt someone else people like that are sick and need to be stopped you are a brave and beautiful girl that never deserves the way that he treats you try your best to avoid him maybe stay after school as much as you can and find someone you trust to go with you to talk to someone that way you arent alone and a good thing to do is keep a journal of every time he says something or touches you in any way that way there is documentation it always helps to record it so that its easier to believe its not easy but you can get through this and you'll be ok...as for the first answer (the long one) fuck them that was a fucked up thing to say to you and theyre just mad at themselves so ignore that...good luck


answered by ShATterEdGlaSs22 on 23 February 2008 22:40

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You should definitely tell. What he's doing is wrong. Nobody "owes" anybody what he's trying to get. The things you're worried about, someone not believing or blaming you, was that something he told you would happen? Tell your parents, tell your school counselor, tell the police. If someone doesn't believe you, keep telling until you find someone who does. I think they'll believe you, and I don't think anyone will blame you. If he gets the chance, he will hurt you. Nice guys do not treat people like that.


answered by Ophelia on 13 February 2008 20:15

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honey dont keep yourself in this say sometiming now before he takes your innocents completely. Its not your fault but even if they dont believe you keep telling. Im 26 and talking from experiance. someone will belive u keep screaming it til u cant talk anymore


answered by lubelle26 on 24 March 2008 19:41

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