Just dump your boyfriend. If something happen to your car, just call police and put your car in car insurance. That isn't a good relationship! A good and healthy relationship is a relationship that could make you to be a better person (like make you get rid of your bad habit)and happy. He doesn't love you and only manipulate you (proof: He flirts wid other girls). I'm sure you will not want that kind of guy to be your husband. There are still more perfect guy outside.

With the look of things, it doesn't look so good. He looks like he knows that he can control you at this point of time. No offense, but the mistake most women would make, is to wait and "let him change" isn't going to work without some prior conversation.

Its inevitable you'll have to talk to him about respecting you sometime. And if it doesn't work, there's always other guys out there. I know it seems hard to believe such a thing, but the challenge, is to find a guy that truly loves you and treats you the way you deserve to be treated. And if you've been doing nothing wrong at all, then its just wrong.

All the best.

Well it is October 2008, almost a year since my last blog, well anyways unfortunatly i am still with him, i know i should leave,i do not know, if i leave him i will not be able to find another. But i know if i do leave him, i will not be stressed out anymore and i will not have anymore money problems, but i have been with him for almost 8 years and i do not know if i can go through another break up, I have no friends to turn to anymore, and my family forget it, they do not understand.. I know i have to be strong and do it, but umm, i do not know.. Should I? or Shouldn't I? there have been many good times between me him and I, the only thing that really bothers me is the money problem, i lost my job and have no income coming in and the bills are getting stacked and we are behind in everey bill and late with rent all the time.. Ehhhh Sorry if iam blabbing on and on I just need to vent..... Eh what am i gonna do, im stuck