Sweety...

Maybe you should concentrate your hardest on not getting hurt and making sure you learn the skills necessary to survive on your own after you're 18. Then (and perhaps only then) will you be able to live away from those who hurt you (like your dad) and still close enough to visit those you care about (like your brothers/sisters/mom).

Those skills necessary include: Learning how to drive (or how to use public transportation)/ the skills necessary for work (study what you can in school while you're able to)/ and note what your parents do to support you and your siblings (paying the house bills/food/clothes/etc.) so that you may one day move out and support yourself.

In the mean time, try your best to do what your parents ask you to do. Put on a 'good boy' face and just do it. Whether it be while you're watching your favorite tv show, during your computer time, or while you're eating... do what they ask you to do.

Be alert to what is right and wrong of them to ask you to do.

If you're asked to do anything inappropriate, seek help (whether at school, or with someone who you know cares about you).

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Take care...

because they dont understand.

My dad is the most abusive I was holding my fork i was eating i asked if we were going to eat pasta tomorow and then my dad kept interupting... He was being very rude i said "Can I talk?" He starts wailing me all on my back and beating me so hard i move hands to my face and cut open right beside my eye accross my face... So far it healed.

I am 11 years old

I'm very sorry for what your parents are doing to you. It sounds like your dad's quite abusive. It could be because of the way he was raised, or maybe he's getting a lot of stress from work.

I think the best way to deal with this is to think about life away from them when crap like this happens at home. You're still young, you'll have a good life ahead of you. So keep that in mind if they ever do this to you again.

well i can try pretend to understand how you feel, i may have grown up in a family but...i understand how you feel, in my life i was bascially sent away by my real mom, because she claimed she couldnt 'handle' me any longer. now i realised once i turned 19 that even though life is full of things that make you upset and angry. but you should know that there are always people that care and understand what it is that you are going through, now in this instance i have almost done the same thing, but i also had control...just like you did, that shows real character, because to be able to control yourself the way you did takes a lot of self will and i think that you have that, you just need to see that. From what i have read in your profile and in your question i have found that you are an increadible person, but you need to start to believe that you are, i am not trying to say that you are a negative person, just that you need to concentrate on all that makes you happy in life, be it: going out the house, calling your best friend just to talk, just listening to music and blocking out everthing.

Personally i dont know what you do, but i agree with vkey643 on the fact that you need to do what your parents ask of you, i do and even though i want to just explode when they do it i put on my 'fake smile' and just do it knowing that i will can talk to somebody else later on about it, or do whatever to take my mind off of the subject or thoughts.

I hope that what i have said will make you think of how well you are doing with your control of many of the situations that you are going through and i hope that you will think about it.

Peace! ~Don

owwhh..same thing happen to me when i was in highschool..well jaz forget about it,,leave it,,and think of another things..go out and make yourself busy or have fun...i know you will remember that when you get home but you should be strong and forget about what they say..or you should listen to some music to make you feel better...and you need someone to talk to..to make you feel better..call your friends..

i was raised by the state hun and i know well what happens. life sux and then it gets better than it sux again its all about how u make it through find somthing to concetrate on and remember that not all parents know how to parent we are all walking around blind there is no book on how to live and if you make it through these years and use them to make you better than thats all u can do. never forget that family is hard the hardest thing there is but it wont be like this forever 18 seems like it will never come but it will and when u get there u can look back and use these things to help u or hinder u. life for me has been about the pain for a long time but i recently found out that things done to you dont make you and the fact that u didnt stab your father is what makes you a great person. belive in the things that make u happy. u have so much in front of u and it will be hard very very hard but u can do it if u belive in ur self. dont give up on ur parents u know the other side of life if u do. they are people to and as a parent i have to remind myself that my kids dont carry my burdens. we all blame others for our faults and its hard to see in others what we cant see in ourselves. u can do this and dont ever think otherwise. try hard and never give up and u will accomplish more than u ever thought u could.

but i don't what that to happen, you don't know what happens when your dad hits you, and if you do know,then you should know that they take kids away from there family's when that short of stuff happens. i don't what to be taken away from my family ever again. i have been taken away from my family way to many times.