Why even report a rape?

asked by honeyblueyez23 on 14 November 2007 23:59


When I was raped. They knew that they would not be able to procecite him just because he was an ex-boyfriend. Even with the bruises and lesions, and injuries. Why don't they prosecute the physical injuries if hey won't charge with a rape?

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I commend you for having the strength to report him for what he did. There are far too many men and women out in the world that are too scared to report a sexual assault. Stay strong, seek emotional support and don't let what he did control your life.

Legally speaking, if someone tries to file against someone for rape, it goes on their file forever. If he does it again, the police will likely see the report and think twice before just letting him off because of circumstance or lack of evidence.


answered by Thinking on 1 September 2008 4:33

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I was raped when I was 18 by an ex and I thought it was my fault because I had been drinking. I was in a psych ward for 6 days. found out that it was rape and not my fault. he appologized, and when i see him i am still attracted, even though i am married. is this normal?


answered by joniw on 22 February 2008 17:03

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You had done your part by reporting it. Just leave the rest to God. He will never get away from his consequences by doing so. Just live your life and pray for him. May God Bless you.


answered by isolated_star777 on 26 December 2007 15:37

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reporting rape is not about justice so much as about taking control of your fears and facing your demons. even if he never gets in trouble u took away the power he weilded over u and that is more important than any judge or jury. u did well and u should be proud i never told until it was too late and u have taken back the thing he wanted most from u your fear. way to go never surrender never give up im proud of you you give me faith in myself.


answered by flower-mommy@hotmail.com on 28 November 2007 16:22

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